1. Conversation is a intriguing game of wits with women for seduction
2. Conversation is not premeditated, not a game, is genuine, free flowing and sincere.
Which method yields best results for YOU with women?
Sometimes my mind comes up with a few good openers given the situation or sometimes I go with stock openers. I've used a few new openers that I thought up and they get the initial laugh and then I flow from there with basic stuff like what are you doing now, are you going to work? what do you do? regular boring stuff. I'll sneak an extreme joke or sly remark within the mundane questions. Mostly free flowing but I've have a few stories to say when the well run dries. I aim for building comfort and spiking it with a hint of wild sometimes sexual talk. When i get the number i dont say anything sexual via text unless I've already done that sexual thing with the person. I dont say I cant wait to fuck you if i havent fucked her yet. But if I have I'll say that. I used that rule with anything. e.g. if we even just hugged, I'll say in text that i cant wait to hug you again but I'll never reach sexually unless ive already done it, i've found that rubs women wrong.
I think being flexible and not too premeditated is the best. it's fun though even when you bomb and get rejected. Its funny you can go back and pinpoint where you messed up and it just builds you up for the next interaction.
What about you? give up some of your secret gems that you use
A pua opener or approach may work at nightime in bars but genuine conversation works better for me for daygame.
Daygame, 2 pm-8 pm is where I'm at right now.
Also I feel it's important not to show too much interest until you qualify a woman and realize she is worth dating.
Coffee dates work well during daytime, bar scene good for those night owls! Haha
Cold approach is the art of the master, I've basically given up on online dating and hired guns in bars. I think once one gets over the fear of cold approach the world becomes your oyster. Especially if you can approach ANYWHERE !
Once my broken leg heals I'll be out cold approaching. In the meantime I'm polishing up my daygame skills.
Not into pua material like speed seduction , mystery method or all that nonsense. Just granular authentic connection plus escalation.
My pheromone of choice CAS but that may change.
Quote from: Dsouza on Mar 04, 2024, 10:38 PMNot into pua material like speed seduction , mystery method or all that nonsense. Just granular authentic connection plus escalation.
lol sit infront your house and just talk to women as they walk by, broken leg cant stop you.
being authentic and social in general i found has helped me 'day game'. logistics etc and having a plan in general is very useful as well. but once you make a genuine connection and make them laugh or be intrigued and actually want you, they'll keep prolonging the interaction. I've noticed when I'm talking to a girl and I feel like going in for a kiss, I'll switch out gum and ask if she wants one. If she says no it adds some fear of rejection but I usually go in for it anyways. If she says yes to the gum, then it's most likely a green light.
does anyone have specific tips or noticed any patterns in their interactions.