Just curious, all the world's greatest PUA's. What do they say is their probability of success scoring sex through cold approach?
Like some stats? I read once one PUA said his success rate for a lay was 1/30 approaches.
With those kind of probabilities it's better to be a nice guy and get laid, the chances would probably be higher IMHO.
Comments?
percentages and probabilities change when you start going after women that are into you. learning and using choosing signals help with this instead of just bullrushing and going after everything moving. choose those that choose you.
What do you want to achieve with this post?
A PUA with a refined game that has worked on his flaws and internal issues and knows all what he need to do will get a top 1/3 success rate. If you will want more than that you'll need to become what they call today a top tier male not only by status but by other measures.
And no, reading a book or an online course will not get you to this 1/3 level most likely.
I would say stop comparing yourself to other men, but I don't think that will happen.
If all you want with women is to "get laid", then I have to wonder how old you are.
There's a lot more to it than "getting laid". If that's the only thing you're focused on, you'll continue to get nothing!
Quote from: Arrow on Mar 15, 2025, 01:35 PMI would say stop comparing yourself to other men, but I don't think that will happen.
If all you want with women is to "get laid", then I have to wonder how old you are.
There's a lot more to it than "getting laid". If that's the only thing you're focused on, you'll continue to get nothing!
This is the worst advice I've ever heard. And what makes you think sex is all I care about? I'm a celeb here in Toronto in the music industry. 8 hrs a day is spent in the studio or stage. I need to make more time to go out and meet women. I have the opposite problem! If all I wanted was to get laid I'd make a trip to Thailand and buy whores for $10 each. I don't just care to score sex, I care HOW I score just as easily. Even for ONS I'm looking for connection based sex. If an hb9 doesn't meet my qualifications I pass her up regardless of how hot she is or even if she's dtf. I don't care if a hottie says I'm not her type because in the first 10-15 min of speaking to her I'm trying to figure out if she's my type.
Quote from: Dsouza on Mar 15, 2025, 04:39 PMThis is the worst advice I've ever heard. And what makes you think sex is all I care about? I'm a celeb here in Toronto in the music industry. 8 hrs a day is spent in the studio or stage. I need to make more time to go out and meet women. I have the opposite problem! If all I wanted was to get laid I'd make a trip to Thailand and buy whores for $10 each. I don't just care to score sex, I care HOW I score just as easily. Even for ONS I'm looking for connection based sex. If an hb9 doesn't meet my qualifications I pass her up regardless of how hot she is or even if she's dtf. I don't care if a hottie says I'm not her type because in the first 10-15 min of speaking to her I'm trying to figure out if she's my type.
This is the worst advice you've ever heard? Ok. Go ahead and keep on comparing yourself to other men and feeling inferior to them. If that's what you're comfortable with, I won't stop you.
What do you mean by a "connections based one night stand"? You're looking for something that doesn't exist! That's the creepo way of saying "I just want sex. but i don't just want sex."
What exactly is an "hb9". I've never heard of that. You put women in weird categories with titles and numbers. That's creepo behavior, but go ahead if that's what you're comfortable with. I'll just stand back and laugh.
telling him to stop comparing yourself to other men is obv good advice period. i just dont think it applies here though. i think hes looking for ways to get the most sex the easiest way possible without paying(which guy at some point in their life wasnt). it could be youre seeking some kind of validation, or maybe you just have a high sex drive...in that case connection wouldnt really matter
Quote from: nicemonster on Mar 15, 2025, 06:26 PMtelling him to stop comparing yourself to other men is obv good advice period. i just dont think it applies here though. i think hes looking for ways to get the most sex the easiest way possible without paying(which guy at some point in their life wasnt). it could be youre seeking some kind of validation, or maybe you just have a high sex drive...in that case connection wouldnt really matter
I don't experiment with mones to take advantage of women. Mones are not a magic potion to "get laid".
Whenever I see someone always posting about using mones to "get laid", posting about PUAs, and using code language for women, I get the impression that nothing they do will get them "laid".
Just saying
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You... it could be youre seeking some kind of validation, or maybe you just have a high sex drive...in that case connection wouldnt really matter