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Oh and of course using socials/trust/respect combos help 

I was in the past fourms for over 20 years so I do find having knowledge in what you're using helpful.

I do have a bit of a dad bod and I've used it to my advantage before, it is a preference for some girls. But I'm big into health so going to upgrade for that reason.

We should probably differentiate Dad bod being tall versus being short. Definitely upgrading helps if you're shorter I would figure. And then there's those that have The gift of Gab, I've seen people that have no looks going for them but having the social skills is all they need.

In my area theres a lot of outdoor beach parties and I would go alone and become friends with other friend groups and eventually get invited. If you go there knowing that they exist and you be friendly with the right people they bring you into the in crowd 

An interesting side note to add I've noticed through the years is rolling with a good entourage which continues to expand. Now a lot of parties are orchestrated through WhatsApp groups and if you're connected with the right groups then you're in the right parties and you begin to have an elevated status. I discovered this a year or two ago, that there's a lot of group discussions happening behind the scenes.

Thinking about checking this one out