Quote from: sigma on May 15, 2025, 06:16 PMQuote from: OneBeat on May 11, 2025, 09:20 AMSo just an update, i tried Casanova once (2 sprays around the neck, and then i reapplied 2 sprays again a couple of hours later). I imprinted on my friend (which i wasn't expecting and i am not attracted to her), that wore off after a couple of days.
When i next met up with my female friends, they normally give me a hug and say hello, but this time they both kinda ignored me and no hug. I am not attracted to my friends and i think one might be a bit attracted to me and the other one isn't, but i found this kinda strange. I definitly think the CAS had an effect on them, but as it's not in line with thier feelings, it caused them to have a bit of physical distance from me.
I think CAS can help women attract bisexual women, if they have some pre-feelings of attraction, otherwise it causes a kinda aloofness.
Also, i have been told that women can benefit from using less sprays than men, so maybe next time i'll just stick to 2 sprays only on the wrists, so i won't imprint myself.
Just my two cents.
Your friend might be attracted to you, and if they identify as straight, they could be avoiding you because they're uncomfortable with the possibility of being bisexual. I spoke with one of my bisexual friends, and she shared that she used to be homophobic. Then, one drunken night, she kissed a girl, which led to an identity crisis. Eventually, she accepted that she is bisexual. She mentioned that many straight, homophobic women who discover they're bisexual often follow a similar path. So, try to comfort your friend by not focusing heavily on attraction. Instead, provide comfort and elicit emotions by starting with trivial questions to avoid seeming like you're hitting on them. Gradually, you can build emotional connection by asking about how they felt during their first kiss.
Thanks for the advice, it will come in handy when i meet someone i like. I am not attracted to my friends so i won't pursue them. Well, one has a nice smile, and that's the one i imprinted on, but other than that i am not attracted to her.
Yeh, their responses were both strange, although i find it hard to believe they like me like that - it must have been the mones that did it!