Dating apps Profile

[Johnny Fever]

By the way Johnny, I am genuinely curious are you the guy in the profile picture.... I think I saw it somewhere before as in familiarity....

I assume you mean my profile avatar picture. The picture is of the actor Howard Hesseman, who portrayed the character of Dr. Johnny Fever on the television series WKRP in Cincinnati.

[Mr_Right]

Hey SigmaWolf
Yes I'm that old guy from he original PT.

The key is not to be disheartened by the dating market but channel the energy to level up

[SigmaWolf]

Hey SigmaWolf
Yes I'm that old guy from he original PT.

The key is not to be disheartened by the dating market but channel the energy to level up

Nice.Good to see legend Veteran still around

Missing Nutrix,The Law and much more

[Mr Highvalue]

I've had a rethink about online and my conclusions are to use a instagram strategy and stay away from dating apps. But make sure your instagram shows you as a high status man with lots of friends and preselection plus living an active lifestyle.

Market yourself as an alpha online with instagram, don't be a beggar on dating apps.

[KingTaco]

I've had a rethink about online and my conclusions are to use a instagram strategy and stay away from dating apps. But make sure your instagram shows you as a high status man with lots of friends and preselection plus living an active lifestyle.

Market yourself as an alpha online with instagram, don't be a beggar on dating apps.

This is a tip a lot of people can benefit from. Care to elaborate eg. post pictures of a bike or car but make them professional and delete old pics that are crappy for example?

[Mr Highvalue]

I've had a rethink about online and my conclusions are to use a instagram strategy and stay away from dating apps. But make sure your instagram shows you as a high status man with lots of friends and preselection plus living an active lifestyle.

Market yourself as an alpha online with instagram, don't be a beggar on dating apps.

This is a tip a lot of people can benefit from. Care to elaborate eg. post pictures of a bike or car but make them professional and delete old pics that are crappy for example?

Show yourself with friends of preferably both sexes, outdoors in nature, at home, dressed in a variety of things including smart attire, and show yourself with an abundance of scarce resources I.e. access to good looking women.

[KingTaco]

I've had a rethink about online and my conclusions are to use a instagram strategy and stay away from dating apps. But make sure your instagram shows you as a high status man with lots of friends and preselection plus living an active lifestyle.

Market yourself as an alpha online with instagram, don't be a beggar on dating apps.

This is a tip a lot of people can benefit from. Care to elaborate eg. post pictures of a bike or car but make them professional and delete old pics that are crappy for example?

Show yourself with friends of preferably both sexes, outdoors in nature, at home, dressed in a variety of things including smart attire, and show yourself with an abundance of scarce resources I.e. access to good looking women.

Fake it till you make it. Definetly truth in that.

[Johnny Fever]

Show yourself with friends of preferably both sexes, outdoors in nature, at home, dressed in a variety of things including smart attire, and show yourself with an abundance of scarce resources I.e. access to good looking women.

Fake it till you make it. Definetly truth in that.

That's referred to as "social proof"

[TracerX]

Recently one of my friends was struggling a bit with online dating. He's an decent dude 33 years of age. He asked me for some help on one specific dating app which I won't mention the name of. I've created a bot that would send DMs to girls automatically. No weird pickup lines, just rather a friendly opening.

It ran for some hours (not too fast to avoid getting shadow banned). We've sent out 8964 DMs.
Now out of this he only got  873 views, which is less than 10%. Out of this he matched with 123.
Matched and out of those 123 actually 20 replied.

The parameters were girls between 23-30 and who are physically active (to get him, "quality girls")

Out of those 123, 50% were like 6/10 girls. The remaining 50% consisted out of 7,8 /10 no more
Out of those that replied to the bro only 9 were hot and out of those 9 only 3 were chill, fun and without any red flags/things you won't want.

I think this is a valuable lesson to ask when going to online dating apps. Are you ready to send 9000 DMs to find 3 nice girls, that's 3000 Dms per girl lol

The biggest problem though is that his profile was seen only by 1/9 of the girls.

And we made a good bio, with decent photos all conveying value. Most apps don't allow you to send DMs without paying or matching first.

If you're gonna want success online, be prepared to spend money.

[Johnny Fever]

Tracer, can you share what app that was? Usually, you need to match to be able to send a message so I'm suspecting it's not any of the ones that Match Group owns, which is practically all the popular ones.

[Mr Highvalue]

Seems that you have to spend a lot of money, and time of course, if you want success with anything in life these days.

No success comes easy or free.

[Dsouza]

This just tells me to avoid online dating like the plague.

Already in two days out  I've had to face to face conversations with two HB8's.

Online I'd be lucky to get a match to my profile.  Meeting up to talk is yet another thing.

Too much competition online and I don't stay out late enough these days to go to bars/nightclubs.

Out and about is the best way to meet women for busy men 40+ with demanding careers and family obligations.

[Johnny Fever]

The problem is that dating today is a cesspool, with women only wanting the top 5% of guys and the others, if they get picked, only for the resources that can be extracted from them (i.e., free meals, gifts, attention, etc.). If you're a winner in the genetic lottery you'll have little trouble meeting women, face to face or otherwise. If you're like me and haven't been blessed with looks and height it can be a struggle.

Personally, I prefer online dating as the money I may spend on the apps isn't wasted on face-to-face meetups from those who only want the free meals and the like and have no intention on even wanting to get to know the person at all. I've been fortunate and have never been catfished, but I suppose it can happen to anyone.

FYI: I'm avoiding the apps until mid-February, as this time is known as "cuffing season" where women will pick up a guy with the soul intent on getting the to gift them things and take them out to dinner. A colleague went through that and warned me, so it's never been an issue for me.

[Mr Highvalue]

Out and about is the best way to meet women for busy men 40+ with demanding careers and family obligations.

That's the only way I do it these days as well.

[Johnny Fever]

I recognize the pattern mostly immediately. Sometimes I play around a bit. Start to say things like: I really enjoy anal sex, I like it when my partner dress up as a furry animal or I am dreaming of a blow job in the cinema's. They agree anyhow, that's in their script.

That's hilarious! If it happens again try some obscure subject like bloodletting - it would be interesting to see how AI takes on that.

When they start talking crypto, I like to say that I had crypto, but switched to gold, because it's much more profitable these days. Actually that is true, so I give the numbers and they are confused. So, now their scam turns into my game.

Never had that happen, but that doesn't say 100% I've had a catfish. Your previous description of the bait profile sounds like half of them on these apps today.

Don't give your phone number, though. They sell it to other scammers.

That's why God created burner phone apps.