Pheromones for newbies? My experience

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[feroferero]

can you describe your personality and your wife's personality. how you were in the beginning of the relationship and what you think made her fall for you etc. and how your personalities are now etc. this is the perfect grounds to experiment. ofc people are gonna think heavy alpha or status upfront , or heavy fall in love/ comfort. but i think knowing these things will help people help you better

The moment came and I decided to answer.
-At the beginning of the relationship we had a good talk and I made it clear to her that if she wants me to be responsible for her - then she can't do what she wants.

-I gave her an example with parents and children - parents control children because they are responsible for them, but if the child starts to behave independently, then the responsibility of parents decreases or disappears. because you can't be responsible for what you don't control.

-I gave her the second example based on a car - I will invest money in my car, I will service it, my car will look the best of all - because it's mine. At the same time, I will not refuel and service a taxi or a rented car, I will only pay the tariff for the time during which I used it but not a cent more.

-Then she understood me correctly and everything was fine. But after the operation and therapy my test decreased, which accordingly affected my smell and the amount of my native pheromones. also due to the decrease in the test my strictness and control decreased, like I became a more homely version of myself. multiply all this by a long relationship when everything got boring (even the most delicious steak will get to you if you eat it every day). that's how her attitude fell apart.

-The main thing is control and rigidity - women perceive a friendly man as weak, because when you treat them well - it's as if you want to get something from her, something that you can't get by force. And this is not only from my (now ex-) wife, it's almost everyone I talked to. Some women, whom I myself transferred to the friend zone, almost directly said that when a man treats them well, gives them gifts - it looks to them as if he serves to gain access to their dumpling, which he cannot take "by force" (I do not mean not to rape, but to take with his charisma, authority, male energy, etc.).

-That is why I agree with Wesllyx - (with or without copulins), if you start paying a lot of attention to a woman - consider yourself in the friend zone. A full man will never look at food for a long time and be interested in it, while a hungry one can stare at all sorts of goodies for minutes... and women see it. After all, if you are full (in terms of female attention and sex) - it means that women pay attention to you, they like you, there is something in you, wow, this territory is worth exploring, even if for one night, but it is worth it. At the same time, if you are hungry for sex and relationships, if you spread out in front of her like a red carpet for a celebrity - for her you become defective, something is wrong with you, plus she understands that you are hungry, that you are in deficit - which means you can be controlled... and this does not mean that you should become a frozen version of yourself, just remember that you are a man, raise your head higher, remember your pride and value, because if you do not love yourself and if you do not appreciate yourself - then others will not do this either.

-It's like coming to a pawnshop with an old priceless thing at a time when you do not know its price – others will give it a price and believe me it will be very, very low. So you should know your price and not sell yourself as if it is a seasonal sale for everyone – you are one of a kind, you are unique, and unique things are expensive)))

-That's how it is. That is why I turned my attention to pheromones - to cover the time for restoring my hormonal background. Although, perhaps over time I will switch to hormone replacement therapy, because after 40-45 no herbs will be able to raise your hormones to the level when you were 20-25.

[nicemonster]

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Once you have to train a girl and explain things to her over and over it's best to move on. most of us learn this the hard way, myself included. You cant change a person's nature by will. i like the car rental thing you mentioned. You can explain to a rental how to be your car, but if she's internally a rental towards you then she'll never truly be yours. it's just too much work to keep up the act. thats why now that your 'power' diminished shes back to being a rental in her mind because it's her true nature and her true frame of refernce to you. the hardest and best thing to do is move on to someone that is naturally your car now. then there will be no performance...performances are exhausting. as sad as it is woman are way more dangerous than men when it comes to hypergamy thats why it's hard to go all in because of situations like this.

anyways, most people here that mentioned alpha mones seem to be right if you want to keep this relationship. since you cant get pxs, lal is your best bet. I like lal stuff above all other mones in general tbh. i think you need bad wolf and overdose. and maybe sprinkle in some cops(dp) here and there.

Wesllyx is right to an extent but his thoughts are too extreme and only work in certain cases. if you dont know women and are trying to get women you hve to give them attentions..you have to talk to them. you cant ignore them altogether. you're right too you cant just lay down. it's a push and pull. u can ignore or mistreat them alot. but you need to give them some positive emotional spikes.thats what you need to do. I think using overdose at one pump at first you'll start seeing a difference, act indifferent at first with it. maybe when she starts coming on or close to you initiate then stop abruptly and do something else or even leave. it's a rollercoaster. make sure you control, and do all of the domination thing way more than you do the nice things. but you have to do the nice things. if you fuck her and go hardcore and degrade her etc she'll enjoy it, but once you're done you have to cuddle with her.

when you became the best you, you start doing these things automatically for some reason. lol and if you want to eat pussy eat pussy, if thats what you really enjoy then do it dont listen to fools saying real men dont do that. whats a real man? a real man does what he truly wants...he isnt acting and performing to get shit in return. good luck fighting the good fight man