Looking for advice to attract a lady in my life

[newlind]

So, i work in a school and one of the new teachers and i have really hit it off. I'm quite a romantic and do little things like leave notes around her table and that makes happy. She cares about me as i do about her but i'm not sure whether it's in the same way. I'm in my late 40's and she's mid 20's. We've exchanged numbers (she asked me) and been out for a meal yesterday evening. Problem is we've both been in bad relationships in the past & hurt by them so i think we're both struggling to openly communicate any feelings.

Maybe she just wants a friend, i don't know & i don't want to embarrass by asking directly. So, i was hoping to see if something in this forum would help. 10yrs ago i used Instant Shine (from Androtics Direct ... whatever happened to them?) and that had great results in making me more confident & helping others to readily engage with me socially. Socially, i could do with coming out of myself a bit. WOuldn't say i'm socially awkward but i don't go out of my way to talk to people.

My hope is that we both fall in love and live happily ever after (not necessarily to jump straight into bed but OMG she's stunning!). So, i hope to come across as a protecting person, someone that she can deeply trust but also someone that she's sexually attracted to.

I was going to purchase some NUDE ALPHA but i also read in this forum that the 'Alpha' side of it might be too intimidating for younger women, so confused as to whether I should get just NUDE.

Then i read about possibly using NUDE and POSSESS ALPHA as a combination but can't figure out how that would be different to just using NUDE ALPHA.

1) I suppose my first question is, should i get:  a) just NUDE, or b) NUDE ALPHA; or c) NUDE & POSSESS ALPHA?

2) My next question is, from the sounds of it, VOODOO sounds quite similar to Instant Shine (from Androtics). Would it help for me also to add VOODOO into the mix?

3) Would you have any other suggestions about anything else i could add into the mix as time goes on, perhaps to add stimulate some sexual attraction?  (perhaps some IMPI RED).

Thanks for any help.

[Mr Highvalue]

Possess and Nude are two different products and formulas. So combining Nude and PA would be totally different than NA.

I would answer your question that in your current relationship circumstances to get just NA.

[newlind]

Possess and Nude are two different products and formulas. So combining Nude and PA would be totally different than NA.

I would answer your question that in your current relationship circumstances to get just NA.

Thanks, could i ask, do you think there's any merit in the view expressed elsewhere, that NA might be "too intimidating" for younger women?  also, is it worth me combining with Voodoo?

[Mr Highvalue]

Possess and Nude are two different products and formulas. So combining Nude and PA would be totally different than NA.

I would answer your question that in your current relationship circumstances to get just NA.

Thanks, could i ask, do you think there's any merit in the view expressed elsewhere, that NA might be "too intimidating" for younger women?  also, is it worth me combining with Voodoo?

There may be some merit. But I don't think it is over the top intimidating.

You could also try nude and not NA. But I don't think it has the same crushy fall in love feelings like NA does. Combining NA with a social plus androstadienone is where I believe it will shine best.

[He-Mone]

Nude alpha plus A1 sounds like a solid choice. But the closest product to instant shine would be bliss by PXS.

[nicemonster]

How is your relationship with her? How do you guys interact? I think that info would be helpful. NA is known to make people fall in love but I've never used it enough to see that. Xist supposedly does the same. Taboo is also know to be good with younger women. But I think the main thing is you guys dynamic toward each other. I personally like bad wolf the best but I've used it with older women. Bad wolf with dp or api with dp and older women melt as soon as I make a move.

[newlind]

Guys, firstly, thanks so much for all your help here.

I suppose it's a toss up between NA & just Nude.
Like the idea that NA is a 'fall in love' mone but still a little worried about being overpowering or intimidating with the NA, due to her age (24, going onto 25).

So, basically, our dynamic is that we're like best friends and occasionally we step over the line, e.g.- furtive glances, lifts to the train station, going out for meals, i create music in spare time and write some romantic songs about her.
We rely on each other emotionally too. Today, she was having a bad day so just came into my room (only a small room) & sat on the floor and we chatted.
We both feel free to chat about stuff with each other.

In a nutshell, we're in the friend zone, maybe we're too afraid to cross the line fully, but occasionally venture over it. Love is definitely the place i'd like to be getting too.

[nicemonster]

Seems like she's waiting for you to make a move. Seems like she's already falling for you in an intimate way. You have to take the risk and push it sexual somehow or the iron will stop being hot. I'd say try a sexual and/or just take the risk. Verbally or physically. Go light with the sexual mone you decide to use at first but you need to cross that threshold at some point. Either she's sexually attracted to you and you get your life partner. Or she's not sexually attracted to you and you know you don't have a life partner in her. Some people may not agree with this advice but I think it's the best way forward. Take the risk.