Tired of Researching—Need Help Choosing the Right Pheromones

[Kosmo Semma]

Whenever I get interested in a new topic, I dive into an endless sea of information. I usually spend about 20 hours in this cycle before I hit information overload, lose interest, and go to Reddit to get advice from people with actual experience. This time, I'm stopping myself early—after only five hours—so we can cut right to the point.

About Me:
I'm a 24-year-old man, naturally charismatic, and I get along well with all kinds of people, both men and women. I have a wide circle of friends, and people generally value my time, my thoughts, and my presence, even if I'm not necessarily the most "respected" figure. (I'm intelligent, empathetic, and in good shape, but also dealing with depression and a lot of personal chaos.) I work at a gym, and most of my female friends are what I'd call the "holy trinity"—beautiful, intelligent, and empathetic.

Social and Connection Goals:
I'm not after casual relationships. I value genuine intimacy and trust over surface-level connections. At times, I feel disconnected, like I don't fully belong, even if people don't see this about me. I'm a naturally intellectual person who walked away from a purely academic path, partly because I didn't want to end up as an isolated, overly analytical "nerd" without social skills. So I channeled my energy into understanding people and communication, and I've gotten good at it.

Yet I still crave deeper, more fulfilling connections. I want to be the person people trust completely, someone they feel safe around—because I am that person. I can listen, understand, and offer comfort. I'm organized, capable of leading, and good at making decisions. But I know that my own dissatisfaction and self-doubt sometimes come through in subtle ways, creating an invisible barrier between me and the people I care about. I want people to see me as someone they can count on, not just as a friend, but as someone they can confide in deeply.

Career and Hustler Goals:
I also have job interviews coming up, and I want to make the best possible impression. I'd like pheromones that help strengthen my natural leadership abilities, sharpening my focus and reliability while keeping a bit of my free spirit. I don't want to become overly business-focused, but I do want to step more confidently into a role that reflects my goals of hustling, balancing life, and building something solid without sacrificing who I am.

Relationship Dynamics and Intimacy:
My relationships with my female friends are affectionate; they'll touch me or joke with me, and I appreciate this closeness. But I crave a deeper level of physical and emotional intimacy. I'd love to make them feel so secure that, hypothetically, they'd feel comfortable lying beside me, not out of a desire for anything romantic but as a reflection of complete trust and safety. I want them to see me as someone they could fully relax around.

At the same time, a little more "bad boy" energy wouldn't hurt. I can be assertive, even tough when needed, but I sometimes let insecurities throw me off balance. My goal is to project confidence and maintain control in situations where I'm expected to lead. While I can "hustle" and be reliable, insecurity sometimes holds me back, and people can sense that. I want pheromones that bring out my natural authority while still letting my softer side show when it's appropriate.

I'm aiming to keep my initial investment under 150€, with the goal of getting a variety of well-suited pheromones that I can experiment with over the next few months. I want to test different effects and find what truly aligns with my personality and goals.

Pheromones I've found appealing so far:

Xist – This seems ideal for creating a deeper sense of trust and intimacy, helping break through the friendzone barrier or reconnect with an ex. It also sounds like it could help me feel more centered in my interactions.

Cohesion – This one's marketed as warm and calming, which sounds perfect for channeling my energy into a more grounded and "cohesive" presence. It may help me turn insecurities into more productive traits.

Alpha Treasures – Described as a solid all-around booster, this one could enhance how I view myself and how others see me, reinforcing both my self-perception and how people respond to me.

Bad Wolf – I'm curious about the "bad boy" effect this one offers. I don't necessarily see myself as the classic "bad boy"—I'm open, energetic, and usually more on the humorous side. But if this one can strengthen my assertiveness without overwhelming my personality, it might be worth a try.

So, this is where I'm at. I'd love your thoughts, questions, or advice on any of these products, as well as suggestions for others you think might suit my situation. Thanks in advance for any insights!

[TracerX]

It would be best first to eliminate that depression and personal chaos to a degree. As sometimes a product which can do wonders to you when you're in a good state of mind, can do the complete opposite. Which that said reading your post, my suggestion is for you to look into some of the imprinting products available from the various companies. Those can give you that 'deep connection' which you seek. Don't fall into the trap of running after alpha products that promise you respect, money and women asap.

For work relations I recommend Wolf or Possess from LAL. For love and deep connections try Voodoo. If you want a balance between respect at work and good attraction from women in one product get IMPI RED, it's good.

If you wanna save money, look also into the testers offered at Aromafero. You can get a 5ml/6.1ml bottles. The testers there worked well for me.

But remember it's all individual, you might need to test different products until you find the one that suits you.